The Key to Major Life Transformations
I think most people go through life thinking they are fairly confident. Unless you are constantly being challenged, the pride of being able to take care of oneself is enough to feel like you are in control.
But we often don’t think about how much we let the world around us influence us and control our behaviors.
Have you ever sat down and seriously thought about why and how you chose the career you did?
Or why you choose the clothes that you wear?
Have you ever wanted something, but held back because of what someone else might say or do?
We end up spending so much time and money keeping up with The Jones’ that we don’t even realize how much of our power we have given away, how much energy we have wasted on the fear of what will happen if we don’t meet someone else’s expectations of ourselves.
We don’t even realize that we have lost ourselves in the chaos. We’re just a shell of our true selves.
We keep it together on the surface but deep down are so starved on a soul level.
Eventually life just becomes a monotonous struggle for survival.
It WILL eat away at you and everyone becomes disillusioned with it eventually.
But there is good news…
You can break the cycle.
Once you FULLY REALIZE that this box you’ve put yourself in, this people-pleasing, society-approved version of yourself is the cause of your pain, you can choose to step outside of the box.
You can decide to take control of your life and to go after your happiness and fulfillment with everything you’ve got.
People do amazing things when they start living their lives fully and with the confidence that they are on the right path.
Major life changes begin to happen.
Some people go back to school.
Some get a new job.
Others move to new places.
Or make huge investments.
Others get out of toxic relationships.
Some people start a business or develop their art or really WHATEVER they’ve been holding themselves back from experiencing.
(My Facebook feed is FULL of posts like this, and it brings me such joy to see people thriving!)
As people make progress on their goals, and their dreams for their lives start becoming their reality, their confidence in themselves increases.
It’s a cyclic effect.
Once you make one major change, what is stopping you from making more?
From completely overhauling your life and demanding total fulfillment in all areas?
Once you know you can do it, you realize you had everything you needed inside you all along.
You just didn’t feel ready. You have to DECIDE that you are ready.
It takes COURAGE.
It takes CONFIDENCE.
And that’s the key.
Finding the confidence to take that first step, to move forward whatever the risk, towards a brighter future, that sets off a snowball effect.
It’s not always going to be easy, but nothing can stop you, because you are confident that the path is RIGHT for you.
It will be scary, and it will feel uncomfortable. But what gets you through those moments is confidence in who you are, in knowing yourself.
You got this.
You think successful people don’t doubt themselves sometimes?
You don’t think they have the same exact fears we do?
In so many ways we are really all the same.
The difference is some people just do it anyway, they follow their heart with reckless abandon. They do what they know is right deep down for them and because of that the world can see it.
We see the light shining forth and we EAT IT UP.
Those successful people you see trotting the globe aren’t just lucky, they’re COURAGEOUS.
They have decided that confidence is a non-negotiable. It is foundational. It is key.
There’s no reason you can’t be one of them!!
In my new one-on-one program ELEVATE we will dissect your specific doubts and fears, and create major transformation for you by releasing the mental blocks from your life which are holding you back.
You’ll gain the tools you need to stand up to life when it’s dragging you down.
You’ll find the confidence to become unstoppable.
